PILLAR 8 of 8
CHOOSING LOVE

Not the easy way — the honest way. Let love be the practice that transforms everything.

Love isn’t a feeling — it’s a frequency. It’s not performative, perfect, or painless. It’s a conscious return to truth, to self, and to others even after rupture. Choosing love isn’t bypassing — it’s standing rooted in integrity, compassion, and courage. In this final pillar, you embody the deepest invitation of all: to live from the heart, without apology, without distortion, and without delay.

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FOUNDATIONAL PRINCIPLES

These four principles form the core of this pillar — anchoring the body, expanding the mind, and restoring peace to the nervous system.

 

✦ RADICAL COMPASSION

Love begins where judgment ends. Extend grace to yourself and others — especially when it’s hard.

✦ TRUTH AS LOVE

Speak truth even when it shakes the room. Honesty is a sacred act of care — not just for others, but for your own nervous system.

✦ WHOLENESS OVER HARMONY

You don’t have to choose peace at the cost of self-abandonment. Love includes boundaries. Love includes you.

✦ LOVE AS A DAILY DECISION

You won’t always feel it. But you can always choose it. In every moment, love is an option — and a revolution.

INSIGHTS

 

When we stop running and finally pause, the nervous system can begin to reorganize. Want support?
The Reset portal invites you into deeper healing —
starting with love for yourself.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 “Trust In Love” isn’t just a song — it’s a movement.

 
 

Behind the Music: Trust In Love

“Trust In Love” is the debut pop/dance single by Alexandria Tava, Certified Holistic Producer, released under Choose Love Music—a pandemic-era startup born from creative resistance. In 2024, following severe injustice and abuse of authority, Alexandria was forced to shut down Choose Love Music. During this time, she began training in Shaolin martial arts at the USA Shaolin Temple in New York under the guidance of Shifu Shi Yan Ming.

Inspired by the path of self-mastery and warrior discipline, she created the Shaolin Remix of the track—featuring Shifu Shi Yan Ming and fellow Shaolin brothers and sisters—as an homage to her journey through suffering, and her return to trusting in love again.

PRODUCT PICKS

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✔️ Mindset Journal - rewire your reality with written intention

 

8 PILLARS OF TRANSFORMATION

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